some things are so frustrating to me. i don't know. i just think if there is a person in your life that brings you more bad than good, then maybe it's not the best idea to put so much effort or time into them period. and have you noticed that the people who seem to want little to do with us are the ones we put so much effort into? 


so what do you do? cut them out completely? put boundaries up? what if they are a relative? someone you can't avoid?


i am witness to this happening to someone all the time. and honestly i don't know what to say anymore. i'm out of advice. the toxic person doesn't seem to be too interested in fixing things, or even hearing they might be a part of the problem. what do you do with a person like that? a person who thinks they can't possibly be doing any wrong? is there hope with a person like this or a situation like this?


i guess what i'm asking is what the heck do you or have you done? or better yet how can you let go of the person? stop reaching out to them? how do you make peace with yourself if you let them go from your life? or if they have to remain in it how the heck do you deal with it?


does any of this even make sense?